The Problem of Self-Neglect in Mental Illness, and its Effects

Self-care is an aspect of daily life very much taken for granted by the great majority. They self-care on a daily basis and give little to no thought about the mechanics of such. However, for some people suffering with mental illness, self-care can be daunting and a real struggle, with much thought invested in planning and executing those daily tasks (e.g. taking a shower) which are easy to manage for other people. This leads them to develop self-neglect.

I’ve been researching mental health for ages, and it is still quite a mystery to me why some people end up unfortunately losing such ability to take care of themselves. One thing I’ve noticed is that it is related to motivation and volition; and it is an essential aspect of maintaining physical and mental well-being. It involves taking deliberate actions to nurture and care for oneself. Some self-care practices include physical exercise, taking showers/baths, cutting one’s finger and toe nails, tidying up one’s environment, healthy eating, quality sleep, relaxation techniques, hobbies and leisure activities, setting boundaries, and maintaining social connections

Self-neglect can be a serious concern, especially when it is associated with mental illness. It refers to a lack of self-care and disregard for one’s well-being. When someone is experiencing mental illness, it can be challenging to prioritise self-care. However, taking care of oneself is crucial for managing mental health conditions as lack of self-care can have negative consequences on both your physical and mental well-being. It often occurs when we neglect to prioritise our own needs and fail to engage in activities that promote self-nurturing. Here are some potential effects of self-neglect:

1. Physical Health Issues: When you neglect self-care, your physical health can suffer. Lack of exercise, poor nutrition, and inadequate sleep can lead to various health problems, including weight gain, weakened immune system, cardiovascular issues, and chronic fatigue.
2. Mental Health Challenges: Neglecting self-care can exacerbate existing mental health conditions or contribute to the development of new ones. It can increase stress levels, lead to burnout, and trigger symptoms of anxiety and depression.
3. Emotional Instability: Without proper self-care, emotional stability can be compromised. Neglecting self-care may lead to heightened irritability, mood swings, emotional exhaustion, and difficulty managing emotions.
4. Impaired Decision-Making Abilities: Self-neglect can diminish cognitive functioning, making it harder to think clearly, concentrate, and make sound decisions. This can have a negative impact on various areas of life, including work, relationships, and personal goals.
5. Decreased Productivity: When self-care is neglected, productivity levels tend to decline. Inadequate rest and relaxation can lead to decreased motivation, difficulty focusing, and diminished performance in daily tasks.
6. Strained Relationships: Neglecting self-care may result in increased stress, irritability, and a decreased ability to effectively communicate and connect with others. This can strain relationships and lead to feelings of isolation.

It is crucial to prioritise self-care and make it a daily practice. By taking deliberate actions to care for yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally, you can improve your overall well-being and lead a more fulfilling life. Remember, self-care is not selfish; it is necessary for your health and happiness.